How close are you as a family?
We usually see each other at
least once a month, maybe more often. We have lunch together on Sunday if we
haven't got anything special to do. We live in Tula, which is about an hour and
a half away, but we always come to Moscow where my mother and father live. It's
not so far.
Usually my grandmother and my
uncle and aunt are there too — we're quite a large family! Sometimes my brother
and his girlfriend come over — they live nearby. The meal takes about four
hours, we spend a lot of time chatting.
There's no one we call the
head of the family, although my father's advice and opinion are very important
in all decisions we take. My uncle Vova in fact older than my father is, so I
suppose he's the real head of the family.
When my grandfather was alive,
he liked to think that the whole family organized itself around him, but these
days it's different. But we all try to discuss things together when we meet.
In most families, it's a small
family group who live in the same house, mother, father and the children before
they get married. But if one of the grandparents dies, the other usually sells
their home and goes to live with their children. So it's quite common to have
one grandparent living with you.
Most children leave home when
they get married. But there are some people who want to lead independent lives
and they find a flat as soon as they start their first job, even before they
get married. Of course, the main problem is that flats are so expensive to rent
here, and we simply have to live with our parents.